During my career as a civil servant and employment lawyer, I’ve often seen how the culture of a team or organisation can create a toxic environment. This is not only bad for the business, but it can also do enormous damage to the health and wellbeing of people working there. It’s a passion of mine to help equip individuals to recognise, deal with and avoid the harmful effects of toxicity. These are my top tips.
Many factors cause toxicity in a workplace: untrustworthy leaders, non-inclusivity, grade-ism, favouritism, poor leadership, and a lack of empathy and respect. Staff working in toxic workplaces typically describe experiences such as a lack of collaboration, keeping their heads down, normalised poor behaviour, feeling bullied and harassed and a climate of fear.
To be healthy and thrive within our workplace, we typically need to:
If you don’t have those five, you could be in a toxic environment.
Unethical and poor behaviours drive toxicity and, left unchecked, lead to unhealthy working environments. You may spend hours agonising about what you’ve done or what you could do differently. Understanding that it’s someone else’s bad behaviour—driven by their own motives—that causes toxicity can save precious time ruminating and self-blaming.
A good definition of a toxic personality is “anyone who demonstrates a pattern of counter-productive work behaviours that debilitate individuals and teams”. Toxic behaviour is not an ‘off day’ — we all have those. It’s when there’s a consistent pattern in someone’s counter-productive behaviours which has a debilitating effect on people around them.
Workplace toxicity is harmful and pernicious. People are in a constant state of stress and anxiety; they become hyper-aware and direct their energies towards surviving the day. In turn, this stress loop affects attention, perception, short-term memory, learning and even the ability to find the right words. Like a phone in power saving mode, ‘just surviving’ degrades your abilities to multi-task and perform at your best.
Recognise and accept there’s a problem. Keep a diary or log of what’s happening and how it makes you feel. Find a friend, coach or mentor to help you seek clarity, challenge assumptions and give you validation. Make a plan—what steps can you take and what might hold you back?
Whose behaviour is the problem? What effect is it having on you? When does this behaviour happen and what form does it take? Write it all down to give yourself clarity and help plan your next steps. Remember you need to deal with this to protect your health and wellbeing.
Decide whether and how to confront the behaviour. Prepare for a difficult conversation by planning what to say. Use open questions so you can explain, in a professional manner, what’s happening, how it’s making you feel and what change you want to see. Think about any steps you need to take to exit the situation safely if necessary. Ask your coach or mentor help you plan for anything that may distract or be a challenge for you.
Stress and anxiety will greatly reduce your resilience. But you can take steps to build it back up. Making plans to confront the situation can help by giving you back a semblance of control. Be your own best friend—set boundaries, and try not to ruminate or catastrophise.
Think about what will help you get through this. Exercise? A good book? A relaxing bath? But remember that, while positive initiatives like these can help you prepare for dealing with the situation, no amount of self-care will help if you stay in a toxic working environment. //
Sorted: mental health (previously The Feel Good App): a free mental health app widely used in the NHS sortedmentalhealth.app
Headspace: subscription-based app with meditations to help manage stress, anxiety and sleeplessness headspace.com
What’s Up: an organisation-level app which uses CBT methods to help with anxiety, depression, anger and stress thewhatsupapp.co.uk
My Possible Self: an app offering strategies to help manage anxiety, stress and fear mypossibleself.com
TOXIC: A guide to rebuilding tolerance and respect in the workplace, by Clive Lewis, 2021 mip.social/toxic
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